The most exhausting thing in life is being insincere.
-Anne Marie Lindbergh
Sincerely. At the bottom of a note. “Trust me” we say. The note, not calculated, arrives bonafide. I am being authentic. I am not hiding anything. I am not playing politics. The word derived from the latin sin: without, cera: wax, comes to our sincerely. Without wax. As it were sculptors in ancient Greece who had something to hide, and were not above it, used wax to deceive. The wax used to fill in imperfections would of course eventually melt away. Sculptors then became expected to deliver to the buyer a note stating the product was indeed without wax.
What wax we use to cover and fill in what we wish were this or that in us? Always afraid of the wax melting away to reveal the truth. What an uncertain exhausting way. Complexes abound. Hindering relationships and progress. Search deep for wax and be without. Everyone has things they would prefer be filled in or unnoticed. That very desire is however what should concern. We are who we have been created to be. Imperfectly beautiful. Live without wax and go in peace.
The Law of Authenticity:
The most valuable gift you have to offer is yourself
-A takeaway from The Go Giver by Mann and Burg
As always good books, takeaways, stories, and/or lessons learned on the subject are most appreciated.