When you have drunk of it you forget forever all proprietorship in your own works. You enjoy them just as if they were someone else’s: without pride and without modesty.
Comparison. I am better. A deception at its core. And jealousy. They do not deserve. Both empty indeed.
To compare and say we are this or that as measured against another is an ignorant quest for happiness that we have all fallen to, I am afraid. One day it produces good feelings and the next the most horrible. At its core is a lie that we actually own something. That we or they are responsible for a good. When in truth it is all God.
We are a body. Hands and feet and eyes and ears. One day the hand is called up and it feels more useful than the foot. Tomorrow when the foot is needed — the hand feels less important. When sight is needed should the eyes count themselves better than the ears? What then if it is dark tomorrow?
The truth is humility. Every useful thing we have is given to us anyways. As is our fellows. If you have a gift of generosity, then give generously in secret and thank God. If another has a gift, the truth is joy. It is most beautiful to see another made useful by God’s goodness.
Jealousy sets in when we do not trust the measure. We think an outcome not fair. That the judge, the boss, the coach did not have all the information and so the decision was not correct. Unfair.
We are a body. If the head calls up the hand in combat and the foot feels a kick was needed the foot becomes jealous. Jealous and distracted. Less useful in fact. The hand and the foot and the arm and the leg answer to the head.
The truth is justice. Who is just? What is truth? I believe God is. And He will sort the deserved from the empty. We are to follow Him and that is that. He is faithful to follow and we will do well to trust in His judgement.
Comparison with jealousy is an ugly distracted and paralyzed way. How much better to be thankful, enjoy, and trust.
-A takeaway from The Great Divorce by C. S. Lewis
As always good books, takeaways, stories, and/or lessons learned on the subject are most appreciated.